Monday, August 13, 2012

Mother Teresa & Mother Church: Loving Compassion

Here's an anecdote about the encounter of a poor cancer patient and Mother Teresa of Calcutta.  


HER SMILE REACHES OUT...
                                           to the suffering poor 

At the home for the dying which the Missionaries of Charity have in Calcutta there was a man who had cancer, his body half-consumed by the sickness. Everyone had abandoned him as a hopeless case. Mother Teresa came near him to wash him tenderly. She encountered, at first, only the sick man’s disdain.

“How can you stand my body’s stench?” he asked.

Life is All About Tinking, Luving & Laffing

When I arranged my books this morning, I found a beautiful book, “Laughing Christ: Collected Reflections of Joseph Galdon, SJ. I fondly remember Father Galdon in his Mustard Seed reflections on living and loving. Well, I recall that I bought this book because it was a collection of his writings by people who were touched by his loving presence and inspired by his teachings. Like his Mustard Seed, this book is all about being human and being alive. In pages 164-168, he provided us, believers and non-believers, three important keys to be truly human. I wanted to snip some thoughts that highlight his message but I finally decided to reproduce the full-text because I want you to listen to this man of God, a brother among us, talking to us the secret of happiness, the secret of a laughing Christ! 

Father Galdon said: 
                        Keep on Tinking! 
                                                        Luving!
                                                                          Laffing! 

Keep well…

On Loving—Revisiting The Bridges of Madison County

The Bridges of Madison County (1992) is a best-selling novel written by Robert James Waller telling the love story between a married woman and a National Geographic photographer who visited Madison County in Iowa for a photographic essay on the bridges in the area. It is a fictional story but, as Waller said in the interview, contains “strong similarities between the main character and himself.” Entertainment Weekly described it as "a short, poignant story, moving precisely because it has the ragged edges of reality".

In 1995, Waller's novel was translated into a film bearing the same title with the plot as describe below:

In the present, siblings Michael and Carolyn arrive at the Iowa farmhouse of Francesca Johnson, their recently-deceased mother, to see about the settlement of their mother's estate. As they go through the contents of her safe deposit box and the will, they are baffled to discover that their mother left very specific instructions that her body be cremated and her ashes thrown off the nearby Roseman Covered Bridge, which is not in accordance with the burial arrangements they had known from their parents. Michael initially refuses to comply, while Carolyn discovers a set of photos of her mother and a letter. She manages to convince Michael to set aside his initial reaction so they can read the documents she has discovered. Once alone, they go through a series of letters from a man named Robert Kincaid addressed to their mother, revealing that he had an affair with her in 1965. The siblings find their way to a chest where their mother left a letter, a series of diaries and other mementos.

WHO IS MY NEIGHBOR: A Lesson from an Island and a Bell

JOHN DONNE (1572-1631) was an English poet and lawyer who lived his life in poverty and yet so rich with friends (no one is so poor as to have nothing to give; no one is so rich as to have nothing to receive!); spent his life in womanizing and traveling until he settled with Anne More, his wife, with 12 children (the pro-RH advocates will make his life as a case for the quest of quality life; the anti-RH advocates will make his case into a crusade to defend life); a brilliant satirist and a charismatic preacher whose sermons exposed the folly of the sanctimonious (the Christian fundamentalists will disown him; the Vatican will silence him, even if he's a protestant.) and unveiled the idiocy of the brainiacs (the atheists will berate him as irrational; the skeptics will dismiss him as irrelevant). In listening to his sermon, the hearers were confronted with ironies, metaphors, paradoxes--all intended to plunge them into existential anxiety and doubt, and in the process, exhorting them to think and wrestle with God. In this article, I reproduce his famous Meditation XVII where we find his two most popular quotes -- "No man is an island" and "For whom the bell tolls; it tolls for thee".